Posts Tagged ‘Courage’
Saturday, April 10th, 2010
Both of my sons (19 and 17 years old) have been going through some very trying circumstances. You may have been through circumstances similar in nature to theirs; circumstances where you are doing all the right things, everything you have been ask to do…and more. And, when given opportunities, you are performing as well or better than most,yet you are not receiving the same opportunities as others who are not conducting them selves with the same dedication, commitment, and enthusiasm. As young men, this confuses and frustrates them. This is not the way things are supposed to work. The terrific character traits they are displaying and demonstrating are supposed to be rewarded; The response when this is not the case can be to become disillusioned, angery, bitter, and we may even want to just give up feeling like we are a failure.
I have been doing my best to encourage them, praise them for there tremendous perseverance and attitudes, and just helping them stay courageous and positive. After a while, I admittedly run out of words that truely offer them what they need. But, recently I found the perfect words in scripture. I offered them to my two sons and I offer them to you, so that, if you are currently facing frustrating circumstances, or when you do find yourself faced with such a trial, you will be encouraged and lifted up. Isaiah 41:9-13 says…
I took you from the ends of the earth,
from its farthest corners I called you.
I said, ‘You are my servant’;
I have chosen you and have not rejected you.
So do not fear, for I am with you;
do not be dismayed, for I am your God.
I will strengthen you and help you;
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
”All who rage against you
will surely be ashamed and disgraced;
those who oppose you
will be as nothing and perish.
Though you search for your enemies,
you will not find them.
Those who wage war against you
will be as nothing at all.
For I am the LORD, your God,
who takes hold of your right hand
and says to you, Do not fear;
I will help you.
Tags: Anger, Be Happy, Bitterness, Contentment, Courage, Discouragement, Failure, Happy Life, Hope, Life Trials, Overcoming Discouragement, Victorious Life
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Tuesday, March 9th, 2010
The following post is from the Wednesday, March 3, 2010 TGIF Volume 1 by Os Hillman.
“See to it that no one misses the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.” – Hebrews 12:15
In business and life the opportunity to harbor bitterness for a wrong suffered is great. We are given plenty of opportunities to grow bitter from relationships that bring hurt and pain. The writer of the Hebrews passage above admonishes us not to miss the grace of God so that we won’t take up bitterness as a response to life’s pain. He cautions us against this because he knows that a bitter root grows and grows until it eventually defiles many others through a wake, no a tsunami, of bitterness. If bitterness is allowed to take root, we become imprisoned to it. God’s grace will no longer have as great an effect in our lives, not because God’s grace is not sufficient, but because we chose to hold onto and carry the bitterness. And, like a big rock it weighs us down; we become ineffective, insensitive, and spiritually dead. we can even become physically ill from it. God does not live in bitterness. He lives in in grace and in freedom. he has provided grace for every person, you included, to walk in and to be free from bitterness.
Consider the person (could be you or me), who one day is is challenged to deal with an individual who hurt them terribly. They are faced with a decision. Do they choose bitterness, or do they choose grace? Oh, how their natural tendency is to choose bitterness. But God provides them with the courage to choose grace, and with that grace comes freedom – a freedom to love and even accept the person who was the source of such great pain.
This is the real place where Christ’s power is most revealed. We cannot live without his supernatural grace. Are you in need of grace today? It is there for the receiving. It will take courage to accept it and walk in it. This will be your step to freedom and to living a victorious life!
Tags: Anger, Be Happy, Bitterness, Courage, Freedom, Happiness, Happy Life, Life Trials, Living a Happy Life, Overcome Anger, Pain, Peace, Victorious Life
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Saturday, January 30th, 2010
“Now when [Jesus] got into a boat, His disciples followed Him. And suddenly a great tempest arose on the sea, so that the boat was covered with the waves. But He was asleep. Then His disciples came to Him and awoke Him, saying, “Lord, save us! We are perishing!” But He said to them, “Why are you fearful, O you of little faith?” Then He arose and rebuked the winds and the sea, and there was a great calm.”
Matthew 8:23-26
Are you experiencing a storm or storms in your life? Are you weary from battling the storm? Are you fearful the storm will destroy you, your family, or your career? Do you wish there was someone…anyone that could calm your storm?
In this incredible biblical story the disciples literally feared for their lives when “suddenly a great tempest arose” and threatened their boat. That word, “tempest,” literally means, “a shaking, a commotion, or an earthquake.” And notice it hit “suddenly.” The disciples were caught off-guard, and reacted with swift panic, crying, “Lord, save us! We are perishing!” But what was a surprise to the disciples was no surprise to Jesus. Not only did He know the storm would hit before they ever stepped foot in the boat, but He also had the power to calm it.
You see, God uses storms in our lives to shake us. We like to be in control, but storms remind us that we are not in contro and challenges us to, no matter what happens, trust Him in the storm? He wants to stretch our faith, to get us outside our comfort zone, and to demonstrate His power in our lives. Sometimes we can see the storm coming, and sometimes we can’t. But we must always remember that Jesus is in control, not us. Storms do not surprise or intimidate Him. God’s love is a perfecting not a pampering love as many teach today.
Today, Jesus has the power to calm every storm in your life. In those moments when you feel overwhelmed by the waves crashing around you, and the winds blowing against you, trust Him to bring a great calm in and around you. The only way out of a trial is living through a trial.
As I’ve been thinking about trials we all face, it has occurred to me that God says it is not possible for any man to be at complete rest until he is aware that all things are happening according to a divine plan. It’s like looking at a tapestry from the thread side instead of looking at the picture. Looking at the picture makes sense, not the threads. It is like that with all of the tangled patterns of life for the one who has been called according to the divine plan. When we know this fact we can be at peace with the world around us because we are at peace within our own souls; and we are at peace within our own souls because we are at peace with our Heavenly Father. Then and only then can we count it joy and begin to learn the secret of contentment. When our world is falling apart, He keeps us grounded. He is the anchor that keeps us from drifting.
If you are not going through a storm today, guess what, one is coming. And if you are in the middle of a storm the question is the same for both situations: Do you trust Him…in the storm and with your life?
To learn more about trusting Jesus, I reccomend reading God’s word, the Bible first, but the following resource could also help you. Enjoy!
Tags: Abiding, Be Happy, Contentment, Courage, Discouragement, Failure, Faithfulness, Fear, Get out of the pit, Happiness, Happy Family, Happy Home, Happy Life, Happy Marriage, Happy Relationship, Hope, Joy, Life Trials, Living a Happy Life, Overcoming Discouragement, Pain, Victorious Life
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Sunday, December 13th, 2009
Giants. When you hear that word, what do you think of? Yes I know, if your a sports fan, you think of the football or baseball Giants. But, outside of that reference, we typically think of scary, exceptionally large beast that we are powerless to fight or overcome.
Giants have been around since the beginning of time. Giants are even mentioned in the very first book of the Bible. Genesis 6:4 says “The Nephilim were on the earth in those days—and also afterward…” The word, Nephilim is a picture of someone who is of great size and physical height, and who is exceptionally strong, fierce, and warlike. The word also carries the meaning of “fallen one”. Some propose that they were called fallen ones because men’s hearts would fail at the sight of them. Some suggest that it was because when they fell, the ground shook, causing others to fall too.
Are giants around today? You bet they are. Maybe not physically, as described above, but giants do still exist and attack us as we endeavor and dream to be successful and happy in life and at work.
Who are the giants of today who bully us and wage war against us; preventing us from becoming all that God has created us and called us to be. They are the same giants who kept God’s people, the Israelites, out of the promised land; the land of milk and honey. The same giants who through intimidation caused the people of God to give up, to decide that water and bread would be enough for them, and to ultimately settle for less than God’s best for their lives.
Do you recognize any of these Giants?
- Fear
- Discouragement
- Loneliness
- Worry
- Guilt
- Temptation
- Anger
- Resentment
- Doubts
- Procrastination
- Failure
- Jealousy
People, hear me when I tell you that God does not want you to settle for less than his best. Read what God told Israel and what what he is telling you!
Hear, O Israel. You are now about to cross the Jordan to go in and dispossess nations greater and stronger than you, with large cities that have walls up to the sky. The people are strong and tall—Anakites (who were part of the Nephilim)! You know about them and have heard it said: “Who can stand up against the Anakites?” But be assured today that the LORD your God is the one who goes across ahead of you like a devouring fire. He will destroy them; he will subdue them before you. And you will drive them out and annihilate them quickly, as the LORD has promised you. (Deuteronomy 9:1-3)
Which giant is keeping you from experiencing all that God desires for you; keeping you from being happy in life and at work? Well guess what, it does not matter because God is bigger and more mighty than them all! He wants to go ahead of you to help you gain victory over your giant(s) and send you into a wonderful new land.
Read the passage from Deuteronomy again; stand tall and with God by your side face the giants in your life. Please do not be afraid. God promises all of us that he will never leave or forsake us, that he will never give us more than we can endure, and that his power will be with us. With God on your side, you have what it takes! Don’t believe me. Grab your Bible and read about Joshua, Moses, Abraham, Daniel, Isaiah, David, and the apostles.
In addition, I highly recommend “Slaying The Giants In Your Life” by David Jeremiah.
Tags: Anger, Be Happy, Bitterness, Contentment, Courage, Discouragement, Doubt, Doubts, Failure, Fear, Guilt, Happiness, Happy Family, Happy Home, Happy Life, Happy Marriage, Happy Relationship, Hope, Jealousy, Joy, Life Crisis, Life Trials, Living a Happy Life, Loneliness, Overcome Anger, Overcoming Discouragement, Pain, Peace, Procrastination, Resentment, Success, successful career, Temptation, Victorious Life, Worry
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Tuesday, December 1st, 2009
Do you want to enter your own “Promise Land”?
Are you familiar with the story in the Bible about Joshua and Caleb and their reconnaissance mission into the territory God had led them to, The Promised Land…filled with milk and honey…a land full of promise, opportunity, and safety.
Joshua and Caleb were part of a group of 12 sent into The Promised Land to see if it could be taken as God had promised. The other 10 gave a bad report that instilled fear in the people. They had a spirit of fear, and the ultimate result of their fear-based actions was rebellion among the people and ultimate death of an entire generation; they never made it into and were never abel to enjoy The Promised Land. Joshua and Caleb, who are described as men who had a different spirit (the Spirit of the Lord), were the only two who gave a report saying that the land could be taken just as God had promised. They were the only two of their generation to enter The Promised Land.
Are you a person led by a spirit of fear or are you led by the Spirit of God?
God says of Caleb and Joshua, “because my servants have a different spirit and follow me wholeheartedly, I will bring them into the land they went into, and their descendants will inherit it.” God’s Spirit led Joshua and Caleb; they were not led by fear!
Fear is powerful. It can paralyze us. Many of us fail to enter into our own Promise Land because we have failed to be led by the Spirit and are instead led by fear. Fear prevents us from entering into what God has reserved for us…a life and an inheritance that is exceedingly good. God described The Promised Land as a land of milk and honey. Our own Promise Land is the same, but The Spirit must lead you in.
Romans 8:13-14 says it this way:
“For if you live according to the sinful nature, you will die; but if by the Spirit you put to death the misdeeds of the body, you will live, because those who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.”
To learn more about living a fearless life led by The Spirit, we reccomend the following resource
Tags: Abide, Abiding, Be Happy, Contentment, Courage, Fear, Fearless, Freedom, Happiness, Happy Life, Joy, Living a Happy Life, Obedience, Success, successful career, Victorious Life, Wisdom
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Friday, November 13th, 2009
A very dear friend of mine, after reading the November 11th post, Happy Life and Work Through Sowing Tears, sent me the following message of encouragment from Os Hillman. It is the perfect follow up to the November 11th post; I hope it encourages you to be Happy in life and at work!
“The second son he named Ephraim and said, ‘It is because God has made me fruitful in the land of my suffering.” Genesis 41:52
When Joseph was elevated to rule over the Egyptian kingdom, he revealed some profound truths gained from the experiences of his years of adversity. He named his first son, Manasseh for, he said, “God has made me forget all my trouble and all my father’s household” (Gen. 41:51b). His second son was named Ephraim because, “God has made me fruitful in the land of my suffering.”
Whenever God takes us through the land of affliction, He will do two things through that affliction: 1) He will bring such healing that we will be able to forget the pain, and 2) He will make us fruitful from the painful experiences.
God does not waste our afflictions if we allow Him the freedom to complete the work in us. His desire is to create virtue that remains during the times of testing so that He can bring us into the place of fruitfulness in the very area of our testing. He has never promised to keep us from entering the valleys of testing, but He has promised to make us fruitful in them. He is the God who turns the Valley of Achor (trouble) into a door of hope (see Hos. 2:15).
If you are in the valley of affliction, now is the time to press into Him. When the time comes to bring you out of this valley, He will heal your memories and bring fruit from this very time.
Sugessted resource: Fear Fighters by Jentezen Franklin
Will you live in FEAR? Or will you live by FAITH? Fear has the deceptive ability to influence and affect our daily lives and the world we live in. What do you fear most in life? What are the greatest threats facing you? Crime? Violence? The economy? Failure? Death? Eternity? Fear Fighters will help you identify and defeat the very source of fear that threatens you from living in peace and joy. This incredible book will open your eyes, build your faith, and empower you to reach out to those around you with the light of truth and hope.
Tags: Affliction, Be Happy, Build Your faith, Contentment, Courage, Discouragement, Failure, Faithfulness, Fear, Freedom, Fruitfulness, Get out of the pit, Happiness, Happy Family, Happy Home, Happy Life, Happy Marriage, Happy Relationship, Healing, Hope, Joy, Life Crisis, Life Trials, Living a Happy Life, Overcoming Discouragement, Pain, Peace, Prosperity in Affliciton, Success, successful career, Victorious Life
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Friday, October 30th, 2009
Lifa and work can get complicated and steal our joy. When that happnes we can’t discover and experience the greatness God intended for us. Here’s a little reminder about maintaining your joy…not letting your circumstances determine your attitude, remembering to pray and move your feet, continuing to chase after our dreams, remaining courageous and perseverant, holding onto our faith, never growing weary of giving and sharing, always being kind and gentle, cherrishing the simple things and moments with friends and family…being who God created you to be!
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Tags: Be Happy, Contentment, Courage, Discouragement, Faith, Faithfulness, Freedom, Get out of the pit, Happiness, Happy Life, Hope, Joy, Life Trials, Living a Happy Life, Peace, Pressure at Work, Rest, Secrets to a Happy Life, Victorious Life
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Thursday, October 29th, 2009
Truly understanding the power of gratitude and thankfulness can change your life and help you live a happy life at home and at work!
Tags: Be Happy, Contentment, Courage, Gratitude, Happiness, Joy, Life Trials, Living a Happy Life, Overcoming Discouragement, Peace, Victorious Life, Work Life Balance
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Wednesday, May 20th, 2009
Oftentimes we experience unhappiness because our faith is not as strong as it needs to be and therefore we do not put it into action. Have you ever been unhappy in your circumstances, I know I have. What do we normally do? Pout, complain, and blame right? Well, what would happen if we had worked at and developed a strong, confident, unswerving faith that enabled and equipped us to respond much differently during the tough times. I believe it would make us happier in life and at work!
Here’s a lesson and story to help illustrate my theory…
“For we also have had the gospel preached to us, just as they did; but the message they heard was of no value to them, because those who heard did not combine it with faith.” – Hebrews 4:2
The people of Israel were called out of the bondage of Egyptian slavery. God said they would be brought out of 400 years of slavery so that they might worship Him. God desired to bring them into a place of milk and honey – the Promised Land. Yet that generation never entered into the Promised Land. Why? They never took what they knew in their head and transferred it to their heart. Finally, it never resulted in actions that were based on what they believed.
When I was a new Christian I heard an illustration of what belief and faith looked like when combined. If you were a trapeze artist and were skilled at walking across tightropes over high places, you might even be willing to walk across Niagara Falls. In fact, I would have confidence that you could because I had seen your abilities as a trapeze artist. However, if you asked me if you could push me in a wheelbarrow across Niagara Falls, you would be challenging me to put my beliefs into action. This requires faith, participation, and risk, which, until now, was based only on mental assent.
The writer of Hebrews is telling us that if we believe God but do not enter in to those promises, we are like the man who chooses not to get into the wheelbarrow. If we don’t act on our beliefs, then we remain in the desert like the people of Israel who never received God’s promises. They did not combine what they knew in their head with a faith that was put into action.
Has God spoken to you about an area in your life that requires a step of faith? Let God provide the courage, as He does the knowledge, to act in faith on what you believe. If you do, I know you will be happier in life and at work!
In case you are interested, here are two resources that you might find enjoyable and helpful.
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Proverbs for Business
By Steve Marr / Baker
* Seeking to honor God in the workplace? Marr offers practical help for everybody from the company CEO to the newest employee! Draw close to God and increase your effectiveness and contentment as you digest daily Scripture verses, ponder challenging questions, and meditate on subjects such as success, human resources, decision-making, hiring, firing, work relationships, and more.
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Roadmap to Success
By Steve Marr / Bridge-logos Publishing
From 36 years of business experience, which includes being a former CEO of the fourth largest import-export firm in the United States, Steve Marr has learned that God’s way works. So if you’ve started a business or are trying to grow the one you already own, to be truly successful you need to know how to do everything God’s way.
Do you have a business dream? If you do, have you been disappointed in trying to make it a success? Roadmap to Success will help you balance your life and work as you learn to apply God’s word directly to your business situations.
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Tags: Be Happy, Contentment, Courage, Faithfulness, Get out of the pit, Happiness, Happy Life, Life Trials, Living a Happy Life, Success, successful career, Victorious Life, Work Life Balance
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