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Friendship

Monday, June 14th, 2010

“We now have this light shining in our hearts, but we ourselves are like fragile clay jars containing this great treasure. This makes it clear that our great power is from God, not from ourselves.” (2 Corinthians 4:7)

90px-Seashore_malta_caveA man was exploring caves by the Seashore.  In one of the caves he found a canvas bag with a bunch of hardened clay balls.  It was like someone had rolled clay balls and left them out in the sun to bake. They didn’t look like much, but they intrigued the man, so he took the bag out of the cave with him.  As he strolled along the beach, he would throw the clay balls one at a time out into the ocean as far as he could. He thought little about it, until he dropped one of the clay balls and it cracked open on a rock .  Inside was a beautiful, precious stone!

Excited, the man started breaking open the remaining clay balls. Each contained a similar treasure.  He found thousands of dollars worth of jewels in the 20 or so clay balls he had left. 

Then it struck him. He had been on the beach a long time. He had thrown maybe 50 or 60 of the clay balls with their hidden treasure into the ocean waves.  Instead of thousands of dollars in treasure, he could have taken home tens of thousands, but he had just thrown it away!

It’s like that with people.  We look at someone, maybe even ourselves, and we see the external clay vessel.  It doesn’t look like much from the outside..  It isn’t always beautiful or sparkling, so we discount it and move on, never bothering to discover what is inside.

We see that person as less important than someone more beautiful, colorful or stylish or well known or wealthy.  But we have not taken the time to find the treasure hidden inside that person.

There is a treasure in each and every one of us.  If we take the time to get to know that person, and if we ask God dscn19032to show us that person the way He sees them, then the clay begins to peel away and the brilliant gem begins to shine forth. May we not come to the end of our lives and find out that we have thrown away a fortune in friendships because the gems were hidden in bits of clay. May we see the people in our world as God sees them.

I am so blessed by the gems of friendship I have, and am very thankful to my friends who have chosen to look beyond my clay vessel.  Please appreciate every single friend you have; life is too short and friends are too few!  Take the time to discover what’s inside.  If you do this you will be happy in life and at work!

Please feel free to pass this on to another Clay Ball!  And remember, do not ask God to to guide your footsteps if you are not willing to move your feet.

That’s Not Fair

Saturday, December 5th, 2009

Ever find yourself suffering or hurting and feel like you’ve done nothing to deserve it? I know I have had, and I remember being angry and thinking or even saying “that’s not fair!” and asking “why me?”

I can be fairly hard headed, so it took me a long time to figure out that life isn’t always fair, infact there are many times when it can be very unfair and downright hard. But, what I have learned is that rather than asking “why?” I shoud be asking “what?” and “how?”.

  • What is God trying to teach me as I go through this trial?
  • How is God trying to grow me as I face this tough situation?

    You might say that I needed a “check up from the neck up”. My attitude was all wrong, and my poor attitude was preventing me from discovering my own greatness and stealing my joy.

    I think this short 3 minute video will encourage you to push through the tough times, go the extra mile when faced with adversity, find greater pupose and joy, and continue to be happy in life and at work.

    The Second Mile Movie